It’s Monday night – and around here that means it’s Twisted Mixed-Tape Tuesday time over at Jen Kehl’s My Skewed View.
I have to admit, I wasn’t going to “play” this week – as I’d been musing on something else – and this week’s theme is “Favourite Dance or Club Music” which I feel I sort of covered in an earlier Twisted Mixed Tape post, but then Jen’s message came with the reason for the post:
This list was suggested by our own Kir from The Kir Corner. Her younger brother suddenly passed away last month, but through this tragedy she has a bright spot in her heart. Her brother was a DJ and loved great dance music. Don’t feel sad, this is to celebrate his life! In her words: I know that he would love it, he loved music, he loved people dancing and enjoying themselves.
Well! How can I say no to that?
Kir, I never knew your brother, and I don’t know what sort of dance music he’d like, but when I think of dance or club music, I think of my university days. So here’s five I danced the night away to in my early 20s. I fondly remember the DJs, the bars, the risers, and the exhilaration of a good night’s dancing to a great DJ’s mix. I hope he enjoys the Twisted Mixed Tape party this week.
Please check out some of the other hot spots here:
So with the introductions out of the way, let’s start this wild ride!
We Like to Party – Vengaboys (1998-1999)
So I remember this one from September 1999. Each year after my “frosh” year in university in 1996, I signed up to be a frosh guide – so I’d basically spend a week welcoming the new students to school by playing silly games during daylight hours (between tours and learning activities) and dancing non-stop until whatever club it was that night closed. Every year had a theme and 1999’s was Y2K – so the different frosh groups had names harkening the ends of time. Our group was the “Havens”.
Naturally, each group invented cheers. Our main one that I remember was to this song and I still hum it whenever this song comes on. Do sing along:
The Y2K is coming!
And everybody’s jumpin’!
The Relics, Revelations…
Ain’t got the motivation!So if you want protection!
From this year’s resurrection!
You know that your salvation!
Is joining Haven Nation!Da, da, da, da, da, dada!
Da, da, da, da, da, dada!
……We are the Havens!
We are, we are the Havens! …..
Tubthumping – Chumbawamba (1997)
This is one of those songs I vividly remember dancing to while standing, not technically on a riser, but rather on the divider between the bar and the dance floor while bracing myself on the pipe that ran above. Why? Well, it seemed like a good idea.
More recently, it came on the radio while in the car with my eldest daughter, then 3-years-old. Suddenly this voice pipes up from the back, “Mommy! I like this song!” Now THAT’S my girl! And there’s some lyrics to live by:
I get knocked down; but I get up again; your never gonna keep me down!
Strangelove – Depeche Mode (1987)
Yes, I know – you’re doing the math. I was, like, nowhere NEAR university when this one hit.
But when I was thirteen Violator came out and I decided Depeche Mode would be MY band. While my peers flocked to Nirvana, I decided that these guys (who believed in personal grooming and who my friend’s super cool older sister and my bad ass edgy older cousin thought rocked) spoke to my soul.
I searched out their stuff well into my university years and inevitably they topped my small talk bar chat list of “What music do you like?”
All that to say, I knew if I’d been talking to some guy, and about 10 minutes later this, “Just Can’t Get Enough” or “Personal Jesus” came on (generally the only three fast DM songs in EVERY DJs collection) I should expect a free drink and be ready to either hand out my phone number or create a boyfriend (depending what I thought of the would-be suitor in question).
Spice Up Your Life – Spice Girls (1997)
Okay! So back to the quality music of my decade! So, I had my one dancing guy friend (okay, he had a few girls he danced with, because he loved to dance and there are WAY more girls in that category than guys – but I really think it might have worked out between us if he was straight) and we’d tear it up to this song. Devil may care fun! The song still makes me smile.
DJ’s Girl – Katalina (2000)
So this is the song that popped into my head when I heard Kir’s brother was a DJ – but it also tops my list of fun dance songs. Anyone who has ever stood in line relates – either to the hope of being on “the list” or the annoyance at those who get in ahead of you because of it. I find it’s also a song I remember every time I try to finagle my way into somewhere I’m not technically suppose to be today, for whatever reason. Example? My husband is a photographer. I have a vivid memory of him shooting a closed event with the Dalai Lama about 10 years ago. At the time we were sharing a car.
And I needed my keys.
That’s right, Mr. Security Man.
I’m with the photographer.
[Sure you are lady. Sure you are].
No. Really. I just need my keys. I’ll be super quick. Here’s my ID. If you won’t let me in, maybe you can just open the door I can probably wave him down from here.
Really. I’m with the photographer.
Do you think I hang out in front of these parties for fun?
Suffice to say I was about as convincing as Katalina. But I finally got one of the security guards to go in and get him for me.
So that’s it from me this week. Looking forward to dancing along to what everyone else brings to the mix.
And if I don’t get back to you tomorrow, it’s because I’m out watching my favourite basketball team defeat our cross town rivals.

It’s the annual grudge match between the Carleton University Ravens and the Ottawa U Gee Gees. Go Ravens!
Ooooh boy do I love me some Depeche Mode! Like BIG TIME. I went to a concert about five years ago and I was teased mercilessly by my friends “Hey the 80’s called, they want their tickets back,” and the like.
Great list!
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Haha! Thanks. I finally saw Depeche Mode around 2002ish I think? I’d honestly have to check. I was sooo excited that they came to Ottawa. And I had two friends who were fans to come with me. So no mocking. Which was nice.
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I didn’t get into Depeche Mode back in the day, but I really appreciate them now. The Venga Boys is one of those songs I really don’t want to like, but its just so catchy.
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I have to admit I finally stopped buying Depeche Mode’s new stuff around 2008ish… But everything up until the mid90s I adore.
As for the Vengabus – it is what it is 🙂
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Didn’t know about Kir’s brother-my heartfelt condolences! What a way to honor his legacy, and these are some great tracks!
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Thanks Michelle – as for a great way to honour him – I hope so!
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THANK YOU for playing this week, truly. My heart is comforted and my hips are swinging…
I am sure that Ben is just tickled with all these mixes, he loved music and because his night job was bringing the music to the people, I can only imagine how STOKED he is that you’re sharing your favorites with me.
Loving these songs you picked, Tubthumping being a fast favorite and reminder of my senior year of college (I went to college at 24), I danced and did a lot of drinking to that song…in fact that friend it reminds me of came to my brother’s wake and it was a delight to hug him again after all these years.
so thank you for this. I am so glad you decided to and I’m humbled by it..xo
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I’m so very glad you liked this and that it hit a good note – so to speak.
I think Tubthumping is actually one of those pretty timeless songs. It’s hard not to move to it.
So very sorry for your loss. It’s a small gesture hopefully it helps a bit to know we are all dancing a bit today to honour his memory.
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My husband secretly loves the spice girls so I’m going to forward this to him. I’m sure it will make him smile on this snowy day.
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Apparently it’s not so secret anymore 🙂
Hope it does bring a smile though!
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Hahaha! This list brought me back. We were in college at the same time, thus the same soundtrack.
And while I was a HUGE Nirvana fan, I’ve also always been obsessed with the 80s and DM is the 80s to me. Finally got to see them live last year and they were amazing. I hadn’t listened to any of their new stuff in years, but their new album is solid!
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Ah – maybe I’ll check out the newest one then! Thanks for that! And yay late 90s!
As for Nirvana I think I like them more as I get older – they just never resonated for me when they were current.
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I wish I could have gotten into clubs in the 90s (although maybe I still would have been Ms. Whiny-Pants), but instead I had to listen to The Spice Girls from my friend’s bedroom after we got out of school and finished our homework. I was Baby Spice and she was Sporty Spice.
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Hmmm. I’m not sure which one I’d be… There’s something I gave no thought too!
Glad it brought back a nice memory – even if it didn’t involve clubbing :). Me? I always think the 80s would have been fun.
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Woo hoo! Spice Girls love!!!! Posh was my favorite 😉 I also find myself randomly singing Venga Bus. Now I have new lyrics so thanks for that 🙂
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Haha re: random Vengabus moments. I’m glad it doesn’t just happen to me 🙂
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Oh my gosh! You just made my cruise ship soundtrack LOL! Minus the Depeche Mode which would have made it to this week’s list, but I figured it was a given 🙂 Even you knew that!
This is perfect. Although it made me feel old, but I’m cool with that. Kinda.
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Not sure what to do with “even I knew that”… I recognized most of your list this week! I was pretty proud of myself!
I love that this was the soundtrack to your cruise days. That must be a wonderful memory. I’ve never done a cruise – maybe in a few years we’ll try one of the family ones….
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I absolutely love the variety found every week in the mixtape link up. Yours is no exception.
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