Well – in case Lizzi thinks that friendly reminders don’t work – I was on the fence about doing a thankful post this weekend. But then my kids woke me up an hour early; so there was a free hour. The funny post I was pondering didn’t really work out. And then I went to Twitter and found this poke:
So here I am. Working on my attitude of gratitude with Lizzi from Considerings and company here:
So here we go!
Number 10
My 4-year-old offered to make me breakfast this morning. She then proceeded to get my cereal out; asked me to get a bowl for her (they’re too high); then poured my cereal for me (without spilling it all over the floor). It was pretty awesome.
Number 9
We’re hosting Sunday dinner this weekend, which is always a large (and expensive) undertaking. That said, thankful for family; thankful for my very helpful husband who pitches in and cooks and cleans (and is busy smoking goose jerky at the moment for us all to sample tomorrow); and VERY thankful that my parents generally host US every Sunday.
Number 8
Thankful (again) for my daycare provider. I’m cooking dinner last night and my 16-month old is toddling around the kitchen area. We’d taken her boots off on the kitchen when we’d gotten home earlier because, well, that’s where she was by the time I’d sorted out groceries and her big sister, so they were still just kind of strewn on the floor beside her hat because I hadn’t gotten around to cleaning up. I then watched as she picked them up and took them over to the boot rack at the front. She then came back for her hat and brought it to the front and put it on her diaper bag. She also now routinely puts things in the garbage when she’s done. Given that sort of, well, order, doesn’t come from our end – I’m going to thank our daycare provider.
Number 7
Thankful for my parents. They went on vacation and came back with new bathing suits for both of my girls – which were a) beautiful and b) needed. My eldest might not be able to back float yet and so will be a Salamander again next session (it was report card day at swimming lessons this morning) but she looked really sharp trying.
Number 6
I’m thankful for the playcare at my gym. I take my kids with me to the gym every Saturday morning and they play while I work out. They love the playcare and have a blast. And I get a solid 2 hours to myself. Bliss all around.
Number 5
I’m thankful my eldest is starting to make it through the night “dry”. We’re all looking forward to retiring the overnight pull up.
Number 4
I’m thankful that my eldest is really starting to pick up and use French more. I’ve mentioned before here that she goes to French school because my husband is French. Anyway, back in September at “Meet the Teacher” night all the parents got a … I think the polite word is “presentation” while the more accurate one might be “lecture” from the teacher about the list of things we should be doing to help our kids succeed. (As an aside, if you ever want to feel inadequate, become a parent). Along with practicing pincer grip and pencil holding, cutting with scissors, number and letter recognition, getting dressed by themselves, buying a big enough school bag and a small enough lunch box so they can pack it themselves without losing their shit, etc…. was also this gem: If you child isn’t speaking French in short sentences by November it will impact their future learning. No pressure. Now off you go and ensure their success!
I’m exaggerating. Slightly. But despite having spoken to her since birth in both languages and sending her to a full year half-day French preschool we weren’t there yet. So we upped the ante again at home. Anyway – at Parent-Teacher interviews they said she’s progressing nicely, showing more interest and understanding in activities; and speaking more in French – as well as asking how to say certain things in French. So happy all ’round on that point!
Number 3
I’m thankful for the idea from the Wakefield Doctrine last week about being able to “skip” a few thankful numbers – should one feel so inclined. I’m exercising that option here.
Number 2
I’m thankful for the adults at my daughter’s school. I wrote last week for my TTOT post about my daughter getting picked on by older kids on the bus. We had spoken to the bus driver after the first time, but it happened again, so I wrote the school, describing the incidents and action taken to date and asking that they do something. Well, the vice-principal apparently intervened and spoke to the bus driver again. My daughter now sits right at the front and they make sure the kids who pick on her don’t sit behind her. So far so good. So I’m thankful they intervened quickly and put an end to it. We asked the teacher about it at the parent teacher conference this week and she thanked us for letting them know because now they can ensure it doesn’t continue. I felt heard and that they addressed the issue. So very thankful – yes.
Number 1
Monday is Remembrance Day. So I’m thankful for the many who came before me and especially to those who gave the ultimate sacrifice. I have family in the armed forces and who are Veterans and I’m thankful they are healthy and well. I wear my poppy to honour the service of all those in our armed forces. Thank you.

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I can’t decide what I think is best here – that your 4 year old made you breakfast, or that her teachers have stepped in and formulated a plan to stop her being bullied. I think both.
Great to know that the friendly reminder worked! I don’t like or aim to pressurise anyone into participating, but I SO enjoy it when it happens 🙂
I hope that all the cooking for the big dinner goes well, and the meal itself is calm and easy to manage. That sounds like a big undertaking, and bravo for rising to the occasion 🙂
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Don’t worry – didn’t feel pressured. I think I’m trying to find ways to be more positive generally and this is a good way to do it – so a little “push” was good.
And yes – breakfast was pretty awesome. It was one of those “oh good! I’m raising a nice human being” moments 😉
As for dinner. Sigh. Did all the grocery for it today (had to hit two grocery stores to get everything – grrrr; I mean; I am thankful I have the means with which to provide a loving meal to those I care for); so it’s cleaning and cooking it all up tomorrow. Yee haw!
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LOL I’m glad you’re getting such positive feedback in your efforts to raise a nice human being 😀
Sounds like grocery shopping was a trial! Well done for finding the thankful!
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How nice that the bullying thing worked out! I was actually thinking about it earlier this week and how easy it would be if the adults involved would just take some initiative… nicely done you guys! I don’t know that I could have kept my cool like you did and you definitely got great results as a result…
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Thanks for your kinds words on this! I have to say I was really pleasantly surprised and impressed with how promptly they responded and helped. They obviously took it seriously, which made me feel good about the people in charge of my child for large parts of her life.
As for keeping my cool – on the outside, yes. On the inside it was hard not to go all primal mother bear.
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Lizzi is great at the reminders, she reminded me or I may have forgotten! This is a great post! I’m not a fan of hosting big dinners either! Hopefully yours was enjoyable, even w/the hostess stress 🙂 The playcare at the gym sounds like heaven.
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Yeah – I know dinner will be fine. It’s just a lot of prep work (so again, it makes me appreciate that my parents generally do it each week so we just have to excel at being awesome guests). And yes – playcare is wonderful. When I was on mat leave I sometimes use to work out and then keep them in there while I had a coffee and read a book for 45 minutes. Divine.
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I love that your 4 yr old made you breakfast!
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Yeah – it was really sweet. In a few years, I’m gonna have to teach her how to make eggs or pancakes. I’m already having breakfast in bed fantasies….
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Yes, Lizzi’s text was the first thing I saw this morning, too, haha! I intended to attempt TToT anyway, but that certainly got my butt in gear for sure!
Great list…so awesome that your little one wanted to make you breakfast, even though sometimes those things can turn out more work for the mom…but the intention behind it is SO precious, it’s worth the clean up. 🙂
I love that that adults stepped up where they were supposed to for your daughter’s sake! That rocks!
I’ve also been informed by more than one TToT’er that you don’t have to “follow the rules” to a ‘T’, so I often do less than ten!
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I’m so glad you did join or I NEVER would have known about the undead tweeting. Lestat might have been a rock star, but I think Dracula being on Twitter might be even cooler…
Breakfast actually wasn’t messy at all – which made it even better. I helped with milk pouring. We’ve been baking together since she was 3, so I think that helps. I never learnt how to cook as a kid, so it’s on my list of things to try and make sure my kids can navigate. Also, I don’t enjoy cooking – so if I can delegate that to my kids once they are – oh – say, 6. I’m all for that 😉
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ALL of these are fantastic things to be thankful for, but being one who’s not big into preparing meals of any sort, I am inclined to agree with the above comments about your 4yo making breakfast for you. That.is.awesome. 🙂
Glad you had a great week and that Lizzi poked you into joining us! Have a fabulous week-end!
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Thanks so much! I’m glad I got my butt in gear and joined too. I always find this uplifting 🙂
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I shall DEFINITELY be bearing all this in mind – pleasant reminders are effective 🙂 I shall have to find further ways to generate such wonderful results as y’all here have provided today.
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Glad that the bullying’s sorted out. Kids need to learn!
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Thanks for this! I was very relieved that it seemed to have gotten sorted out so quickly. Fingers crossed it’s the end of it. I mainly just didn’t want my kid dreading the school bus for the next, well, forever.
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I’m glad things seem to be going better with your little girl and the bullies! The whole cereal pouring thing sounded adorable. Kids can be so heart-searingly sweet and sincere sometimes.
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Thanks re: the bullying bit. As for breakfast – yeah, that was pretty awesome. She’s actually getting pretty good at helping with cooking generally – so I’m hopeful there’s more where that came from in my future 🙂
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I enjoyed the list…and for the record, #3 is rightly referred to Secret Rule 1.3 in the Book of Secret Rules that is reputed to be under lock and key in ‘our Miz Lizzi’s chambers’*
I too appreciate Lizzi’s timely…. nudges.
*though an illicit copy is reported to be out there…
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Noted. I won’t tell a soul. Posting it to the WWW totally doesn’t count, right?
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I wish I could lecture, I mean, present information to MY preschool parents! Other than expecting all of my kids to speak French, I would love my parents to take all the rest of those suggestions! Glad the bullying stopped. And that you may be saying goodbye to the pull up soon. And can your youngest come over and pick up around my house?
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Sure! We’ll hang one of those “unaccompanied minor” signs on her and send her over on the next flight.
As for the list of things to do at home with our kids – we’d been at a lot of them for a while – there’s just some stuff my eldest doesn’t really care for – eg: colouring and crafts generally (despite quite a bit of effort on our end to try and get her interested/focussed). She can creative play you right to Wonderland – but I think my 16-month-old NOW would have a better chance at representing that adventure on canvas than my 4-year-old. She’s starting to get more interested in drawing and stuff, but nowhere near where other kids her age are. We’ll keep on truckin’ at this end.
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